Why? .... or … How?

Haiz... Sigh? I mean again? Life is just boring and suffering isn’t it? Well, today’s mood clearly not showing that as the purpose of this second post is not meant to be for me. Do not ask why as we, I mean me myself do not know what’s the purpose of this second post. Yeah! I guess it is for you, the one who are reading this. The best answer ever I think. Well, recently I have came across a few, yeah I meant A FEW people around (including me) who are “why” asker. I guess it is time to discuss about this. Life is always full of sorrow if we view it as. That is perhaps the basic thing among all others. But how many of us actually can remember those happy and forget those sad? Not many as I could predict. Well, since we understand that we wouldn’t be able to alter anything that had happened, then I guess what is important here is no longer asking WHY it happened… which the interesting fact shows that everyone seems to be asking WHY rather than asking HOW. Guess then it is the time for everyone to start asking. Why are we asking “why” rather than “how to change it”? WHY are we keeping past events so important presently? Asking why simply lead your life stages to remain at the stage of why as we ourselves know we can’t change it. Talk will always easier than done but do not forget I am human. Anyway if you realise that even you yourself not able to answer the question of why then do not waste your time there, in the mysterious world of why. Let’s move on to the next question of how. Trust me, only by asking how then you will be able to change your life. Only by asking how then we would be able to improve our life. Yeah I do not deny that sometimes we just do not understand how it feels until we are in the situation, but… that does not means that you need not move from this WHY position. How you know that other people are not as suffer as you in their life? How you determine your level of suffers compared to others in the world? If you are to be considered as the most unfortunate person, then consider those who are terminally illed, those who involve in natural disaster that lost everything in a night. Does that mean that they can end their life there? Definitely NOPE. Some truly did not end and stop their lives there but rather it MOTIVATES them. They know the meaning of life. They know their life is still on and they even know those who went away and never come back would like to see them to be a better person. It is a change! Yeah believe me it is a change too for all of you. Unfortunate event is an unfortunate event when you view that as. Change a perspective you will realise that everyone is treating you fairly, including HIM. Like what I said… it is a chance. Every unfortunate event is just a chance awarded by the god. It is simply a chance of learning, a chance of experiencing something in different stage of life, a chance of changing you to be a tougher person, a chance to change your thinking and mind to be more mature. Get this clear and change everything negative to positive. Not lying to you but keep this principle, then you will be able to move further than what you expected. The decision belongs to you. Well, I guess this is just another emotional expression created at midnight. So just simple questions now….. Why? or How? ... You decide..